Visually identical containers can conceal loads that require different handling decisions. We present TANav, which uses a brief nudge to measure push resistance for navigation under a site-defined handling boundary. TacPhys reads the force sequence, with optional RGB-D and kinematics, into a mass estimate for push authorization. A repeated-patrol planner weighs probe and route costs, requests a second contact when useful, and reuses observations across visits. In simulation, TacPhys approaches a resistance-only Bayes reference and reduces missed pushes from 28.7% to 5.5% relative to peak-force thresholding at comparable low-risk operating points. In repeated-patrol simulation, TANav recovers 90% of the oracle's path saving, more than halves human interventions relative to always-detour, and reduces boundary violations from 4.3% to 2.9% relative to RGB-D-only probing. On a quadruped manipulator with a Hall-array fingertip, offline zero-shot MAE is 0.28-1.07 kg on containers up to 2.82 kg. Force-rise calibration at 3 kg gives 93.5% pooled offline accuracy (86.4% on non-cube episodes); a separate raw-peak rule gives 15 of 20 correct online decisions on unseen boxes.