In ROS 2 systems using DDS, a single slow subscriber on a RELIABLE topic can cause backpressure that degrades throughput and latency for all subscribers sharing the same publisher, including safety-critical local nodes. We present Adaptive Bridge, a proxy-based decoupling layer that isolates critical subscribers from noncritical ones through topic splitting and adaptive rate control. The proxy subscribes to the original topic and republishes onto two independent DDS writers, one RELIABLE for critical consumers and one BEST_EFFORT for noncritical consumers, breaking the causal chain of backpressure propagation. A probe-based classifier monitors subscriber health with hysteresis and adjusts noncritical rate limits in real time. We evaluate the system under Gilbert-Elliot bursty wireless loss using a reproducible Docker-based harness. Results show the bridge reduces critical subscriber tail latency from up to 15 seconds to under 2 milliseconds at p95 and preserves publisher throughput at 30 Hz regardless of impairment severity.